Your Ultimate Bridal Guide to Lashes

Not all lashes are created equal.


Your choice of lashes for your wedding day can have a major impact on your bridal makeup look, and it's important to know all of your options and how they can effect your look on the big day and beyond. Here is all the info and advice I give to my brides so you can make an informed decision on the perfect fit for you.

Strip lashes

Pros- quick, easy, and temporary way to enhance your natural lashes, lots of styles to choose from, ranging from natural to bold. No commitment or maintenance.

Cons- the strip can sometimes be heavy or uncomfortable to wear, corners can start to come unglued over the course of the day and may need to be touched up.

Strip lashes are by far the most popular choice for the wedding day, easily applied and easily removed and discarded (or reused!) There is no commitment, and the range of styles is broad, from a light layer that gently enhances, to full, fluffy, and bedazzled, there is a style out there for everyone. 

If however lashes are not something you have experience wearing, they may feel heavy or awkward, and can take some getting used to. I recommend a test run wearing the desired style to see if you will ultimately be comfortable wearing them for a full day. They also look best with some eyeliner to help hide the band along the lash time.

Lashes are applied by first measuring the eye to make sure the lashes will fit, and trimming some length off the ends of the strip if needed. Glue is applied to the band and allowed to dry slightly to give it a tacky finish before applying to the eye along the lash line. (Make sure to request latex free glue if you have a latex allergy!) Removal is easy, just gently lift the corner and lift away from the skin. If desired, you can remove any excess glue remaining on the band and save the lashes to be re worn again later.

Individual/cluster lashes

Pros- more comfortable than strip lashes, low commitment, great way to enhance a natural look, can be worn up to three days.

Cons- Can be time consuming to apply, and more care needed to remove.

Individual or cluster lashes are a great way to get a customizable version of a strip lash and can be much more comfortable than strip lashes with a band. They can be placed strategically to enhance and compliment any eye shape, blended together with a coat of mascara. However they may take a much more delicate approach to removal as you don't want to pull out any of your own lashes with them, and it could take a couple days before the glue becomes weak enough to do so safely.

Individual or cluster lashes are applied with a glue along the lash line and layered as desired. Since these generally sit along the lashes, removal must be done delicately as not to pull out any natural lashes that may have also have come in contact with the glue.

Lash extensions

Pros- the most realistic looking false lashes capable of a natural or bold look, customizable to your eye shape, no visible strip or sticky glue. Long lasting especially with refills by a pro.

Cons- high maintenance and potentially damaging to the natural lashes if not properly applied or cared for. Must be applied and removed at an appointment with a licensed lash extension professional. High level of commitment.

Lash extensions when done by a highly skilled professional can range from natural to glam, and are a beautiful choice for your wedding day. They do however require lots of maintenance and care. Say goodbye to cream shadows, eyeliners, and your favorite mascara. Any oils from your eye makeup or makeup remover can break down the bond and cause the extensions to shed. A delicate touch when cleansing or applying eye makeup is needed.

It's also so important that your technician is licensed and experienced. Today is not the day to take a gamble on your face! Avoid any deals or coupons and invest money in a professional who will beautify you while keeping your health and safety a priority.

You also want to consider the timing of your honeymoon, depending on when it is scheduled you may want to squeeze in an appointment before for a re-fill, or removal of your extensions if you don't want the hassle of caring for them on your vacation.

Lash extensions are applied by gluing individual lash extensions directly onto the natural lash, and are removed one by one using a solution that breaks down the bond of the glue without risk of pulling out any of the natural lashes.

Lash serum

Pros- Your own natural lashes enhanced. No glue, no appointments, no restrictions on makeup products.

Cons- Chance of an allergy or sensitivity, can cause discoloration at the area of application for some, or even darkening of the iris on lighter eye shades. Must be applied nightly, and can take up to three months to see the full results.

I love a good lash serum! Growing your own beautiful long lashes is like a dream come true, and no need to go to monthly appointments to keep up with shedding extensions or deal with potentially messy glue on clusters or strips...these ones are all yours!

However as with any serum or product that comes in contact with the skin its important to make sure there are no chances of an allergy or reaction first before applying to the delicate eye area, and for some with lighter eyes there is the risk of eye darkening side effects that can occur with some formulas. There are many different brands and formulas out there that work in different ways and to varying degrees, so doing your research is super important before choosing one.

You will also have to apply the serum to the lash line nightly to see the desired results which can take up to three months, so make sure that adding this into your routine is realistic before committing and well within your wedding timeline.

Generally, lash serums work by lengthening the growth phase of the lashes. The longer the growth phase, the longer the lashes grow, and less frequent shedding means fuller lashes as well. Some formulas work by simply conditioning the lashes, which can prevent excess shedding and breakage, and promote lash health which can result in the growth of healthier, thicker lashes.


Lash lift

Pros- It's your natural lashes enhanced, no daily maintenance, no glue, no limits on makeup or skincare, great for straight lashes that won't hold a curl.

Cons- Cannot be paired with last extensions, allergy or sensitivity to the perming solution, can damage the lashes if done too often, grow out phase can be awkward until a fresh lift can be safely done.

A lash lift is a great option for your wedding day! Especially for those with super straight lashes, a lift will expose all those lashes you never even realized you had, and there is no reason you can't pop some strip lashes on top, no lash curler needed. My lashes are naturally dark and when I had mine lifted and I couldn't believe they where my real lashes, I could go mascara (and eyeshadow) free and I loved it!

If your lashes are lighter in color, pairing a lift with a lash tint can be life more mascara needed! 

The grow out phase between appointments can be slightly awkward, as the lashes naturally shed and regrow and you may notice your straight lashes growing in while many of your curled lashes are still present. A lash curler can help to ease the transition between appointments. Also consider pairing your lift with a lash serum, as a serum that extends the growth phase can also extend the amount of time between lift appointments.

Lash lifts are performed by a technician using a mold that is placed on the lid along the lash line. The lashes are adhered to the mold and a perming solution is applied (this is a great opportunity to sneak in a quick nap!). The perming solution works in a similar way to regular perming so over doing it can damage the lashes and cause fraying and or breakage.


Pros- Easy, elegant, maintenance free

Cons- Dependent on the quality of your natural lashes, risk of smudging or transferring onto the skin.

Your natural lashes with a curler and coat of mascara is the easy and elegant choice! There is no prep, no maintenance, no pricey application or removal, and in some makeup artists opinions is the most elevated and elegant option.

However, not everyone is blessed in the natural lash department. Depending on how full/thick your natural lashes are, and if you suffer from too few or no lashes, you may want to consider any one of the other options. Do they have to be super dramatic and glam? Of course not! But lashes are still important in finishing and balancing a makeup look so a little something there is important.

If you are happy with your natural lashes, finding a great mascara is a must! On your wedding day a waterproof formula is ideal. However most brides wrongly assume that a water proof mascara means a smudge proof mascara. It’s important to have realistic expectations when it comes to mascaras and nothing is truly bullet proof.

Water is not the main culprit in breaking down mascara and causing it to smudge…what you need to look out for is oil, which will break down any makeup waterproof or not, and cause smudging. Oil can come from your skin, from your skincare, or your makeup, and the only way to avoid under eye smudging completely is to go mascara free on the lower lashes. A tubing mascara may be a good alternative if you just can’t live without defined lower lashes, as the formula creates a “tube” around the natural lash and sheds off the same way. These are much less likely to smudge however with a good amount of crying the “tubes” may start to release from the lash and can come off in chunks.

When applying mascara for my brides, I love to use a mascara fan brush instead of a mascara wand which doesn't allow for as much precision as a brush and can get messy. A fan brush coats the lashes beautifully and precisely and can easily build upon the formula with zero clumping or mess. However when applying on yourself, the wand that comes with the mascara will be the most user friendly option. If you do get mascara anywhere else that is not your lashes, it's important to let it dry completely before attempting to clean it off. Mascara is formulated to adhere to lashes, not other makeup or skin so it should flake off easily and gently with a dry Q-tip, otherwise you risk smudging or smearing it into your makeup and that will definitely be work to try to fix.

Lashes can make or break your bridal makeup look, and when done right can elevate your natural beauty. My biggest suggestion to you is to do your homework on what will work the best for you, and get out there and test drive some options! Have more questions not answered here or just need some help deciding what to do? Shoot me an email and ask, I’m always available to help with any of your beauty needs! Looking for a lash extension or lash lift technician in Chicago? Feel free to reach out to me by email for my list of trusted professionals.



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Photography: Mandi Forbes

Your Ultimate Bridal Skincare Guide

All the basics you need to know to get you started on your journey towards healthy glowing skin on your wedding day.


You’re engaged and have started planning for your big day! 

You may have already invested much time and energy finding the perfect photographer to show you in your best light and capture those special moments, and even said yes to the dress (and the shoes!). You know these photos from your special day will be a part of your family for decades to come so of course you want to feel like the best possible version of yourself.

So what about your skin? 

They way our skin looks and feels has a major impact on our self esteem and confidence, as well as that beautiful Pinterest bridal makeup look you are dreaming of. And who doesn't want that radiant newlywed glow?

In this guide you will find the basic information you need to craft an effective and personalized skincare routine to help you achieve healthy beautiful skin, and maximize the results of your wedding day makeup.


Sweat, oil, makeup, and pollution from our environment build up on the surface of the skin and can cause damage if not cleansed away properly.

Our skin works hard for us, protecting us from environmental aggressors, so it's important that we cleanse it well day and night. A good cleanser will be gentle, won't leave the skin feeling dry or tight, and will be effective at removing dirt and or makeup. 

For makeup wearers, a really great option to start with is an oil cleanser. An oil cleanser will break down makeup and grime, lifting it from the skin to be easily cleansed away. Oils are also a great option for dry skin types.

For more oily or combo skin, it's ideal to follow an oil cleanser with a more clarifying or foaming cleanser to penetrate deeper into pores and remove any left over oils.  This step is especially important if you wear makeup.

Another option for cleansing is micellar water. Micellar water cleansers don't require any rinsing and can be used with a cotton pad swiped across the skin to remove dirt and makeup. I don't recommend relying solely on micellar water, but they are great for on the go or in a pinch. 

Whatever you do, do not use: body wash, shower gel, bar soap, or anything not formulated specifically  for the face! 

These products can strip the skin of natural oils severely drying the skin, irritate the eyes, and may even leave behind a film that can clog pores and so much more. Gross! 

Here are some great cleanser options that are gentle on the skin, but tough on dirt and makeup: 

 All skin types

Mario Badescu glycolic foaming cleanser

Glossier Milky Jelly Cleanser

COSRX  Low pH Good Morning Gel Cleanser

Drunk Elephant Beste™ No. 9 Jelly Cleanser

 Oily/acne prone

First aid beauty skin rescue red clay deep cleansing gel

 Sunday Riley ceramic slip cleanser

No.7 beautiful skin foaming cleanser

LaRoche-Posey Effaclar H cleansing cream

Mario Badescu acne facial cleanser

Dry skin

LaRoche-Posey toleriane hydrating gentle facial cleanser

Lancome miel en mousse

Nars gentle creamy cleanser

Dior prestige micellar mousse

Sensitive skin

Caudalie instant foaming cleanser

Clarin’s cleansing milk with gentian

First Aid Beauty face cleanser

Fresh soy face cleanser


Kate Somerville exfolikate cleanser

Philosophy microdelivery exfoliating wash

Skinceuticals clarifying exfoliating cleanser

Oil cleansers

Shu uemura high performance balancing cleansing oil advanced formula

Tatcha pure one step camellia cleansing oil

Shiseido perfect cleansing oil

Micellar water

Bioderma sensibio h2o

Dior hydra life micellar water

Koh Gen Do cleansing spa water


The biggest mistake I see brides making is failing to exfoliate.

Makeup on top of skin that is not exfoliated well will look cakey, dull, and won't last as long or photograph as flawlessly. Properly exfoliated skin will always give your makeup a more natural, beautiful, and long wearing finish, as well as a more effective and boosted skincare routine.

Exfoliation removes build up of dry dead skin that can form a barrier and block your moisturizer and other skincare products from being absorbed by the healthey skin.

I always recommend a chemical exfoliant for every skin type rather than a physical scrub which can be too harsh for the delicate skin on your face. Chemical exfoliants are acids or enzymes that work by dissolving the dead skin and any debris on the surface without scrubbing or harming the healthy skin below.

-Alpha hydroxy acids (AHA) like glycolic acid, lactic acid, mandelic acid, malic acid, and citric acid, are water soluble and will gently dissolve build up on the surface of the skin to reveal the healthy skin below. This will boost the skins ability to shed cells faster which promote younger, smoother looking skin, and are great for dry skin types.

-Beta hydroxy acids (BHA) like salicylic acid are oil soluble and have anti inflammatory/anti bacterial properties. These penetrate deeper to clear out black and white heads and break down oil. Great for acne prone skin and even rosacea.

-Enzymes, derived from fruit are a more gentle alternative. Similar to BHA’s in their effects and are great for sensitive skin.

These acids can be found in a number of different products, from gentle daily cleansers and toners, to more moderate masks and peeling pads used only once or twice a week.

More intense exfoliations can be performed by an aesthetician, using methods like dermaplaning, chemical peels, and micro dermabrasion and are great for oily skin with enlarged pores, along with a more gentle exfoliant used regularly for maintenance.

Here is a list I’ve compiled of some of the top chemical exfoliators:

Kate Somervlle exfolikate

Volition beauty apple cider vinegar resurfacing peel pads

Drunk Elephant T.L.C sukari babyfacial

Drunk Elephant T.L.C. framboose glycolic night serum

Sunday Riley good genes glycolic acid treatment

Paula’s Choice skin perfecting 2% BHA liquid exfoliant

Dr Dennis Gross alpha beta universal daily peel

Glossier solution

Moon Juice exfoliating acid potion

The Ordinary aha 30% + bha 2% peeling solution

La Prairie 3 minute peel


Toner is one of the most common products that is missing from many brides routines, even though it is one of the most important elements in making a skincare routine effective. 

It's not surprising, since the functions and benefits are so broad and varied that it can become vague and confusing about what they actually do. 

So what are they, what are the benefits, and why do you need one?

To put it as simply as possible, toners are fast penetrating liquids that remove surface debris and dead skin cells left over from cleansing, and chlorine and minerals left over from tap water that are damaging to the skin. They also balance the natural acidity level of the skin (ph), moisten, and prime the skin to absorb your skincare.

Without a toner, your skincare products are more likely to sit on the surface of the skin without penetrating and delivering the results you want.

There are two main types of toners: hydrating and exfoliating. 

My favorite toners are exfoliating, with a combination of AHA and BHA to maintain the glow and clarity of the skin, so I know I will get the full benefits from the rest of my skincare.

Toners should be used day and night, after cleansing. I use mine soaked in a cotton pad and swiped gently across the skin. 

Here are some popular plus effective toner options:


Fresh rose deep hydration facial toner

Algenist hydrating essence toner

Indie Lee coq-10 toner

Context hydrating toner

Nars multi action hydrating toner


The Ordinary glycolic acid 7% toning solution

Pixi Beauty glow tonic

Ren Skincare ready steady glow daily aha tonic

Nars multi action hydrating toner (if you noticed this toner in two categories that’s because it’s both hydrating and exfoliating!…it’s also my personal favorite.)


Finding the right moisturizer is key.

It doesn't have to be expensive but it should be effective and with quality ingredients. Avoid moisturizers that contain SPF, as it will be diluted by the moisturizer and won't be as effective as when applied on its own, and sleeping in SPF is not ideal if you are using the same moisturizer day and night.

Look for the following in the first five ingredients listed on the moisturizer:

-Hyaluronic acid.

A natural lubricant produced by the body that helps to attract and retain moisture. 


Produced from plants, is a humectant that attracts water.


A naturally occurring lipid found in the top layers of skin that acts as a protectant to help skin retain its moisture.


Helps to loosen dead skin cells and binds moisture to skin.


Produced from olives and is similar to squalene, which is naturally produced in our skin but starts to decline in our 20’s. It acts like a lipid to help protect the skin and retain moisture.

Moisturizer should always be applied immediately after cleansing and toning while the skin is still slightly damp for best moisture retention and absorption.

Oily/combination skin types.

Even if you have skin that produces a lot of oil doesn't mean it can't also become dehydrated, and dehydrated skin will over produce oil to try to compensate, making hydration even more important.

A lighter gel, oil free cream, or a hydrating serum can be more comfortable during the day so as not to add more oil to already oily skin. However, nighttime hydration will be important in helping to calm down those overactive oil glands, allowing you to go lighter on products for daytime and under makeup.

Dry skin types.

Dry skin does well with richer creams, and may even need the added benefit of a hydrating oil layered on top to lock in the moisturizer especially at night. Dry skin cannot be cured, but dehydration can be. Moisturizing while the skin is still slightly damp from cleansing and toning is crucial.

When using oils it’s important to leave the cooking oils in the kitchen where they belong!

Coconut oil and olive oil can not only clog the pores, but can block your skin from absorbing moisture. Look for an oil specifically formulated for the face, not the body. It’s also important to avoid pure essential oils, as those are incredibly potent and can actually sensitize the skin, damaging it permanently.

Here is my list of the some of the top moisturizers broken down by skin type:

All skin types

The Ordinary natural moisturizing factors + ha

Kiehl’s ultra facial cream

Skin Ceuticals metacell renewal b3

Tatcha the dewy skin cream

Oily/combo/acne prone

Mario Badescu aha and ceramide moisturizer

Skin Ceuticals triple lipid restore 2:4:2

First Aid Beauty skin rescue daily face cream

Peter Thomas Roth water drench hyaluronic cloud cream

Paula’s Choice oil free moisturizer

Dry skin

La Roche-Posey toleriane double repair face moisturizer

Laneige water bank moisture cream intensive

Drunk Elephant lala retro whipped cream moisturizer

Biossance squalane + omega repair cream

Vichy aqualia thermal rich cream

Serums and masks

(extra credit)

Serums are not necessary for a good skincare routine but they can boost your desired results based on the concern you want to target.

If you are concerned with anti aging, an anti aging moisturizer alone won't provide dramatic results, since the ingredients are diluted by the moisture which is its primary purpose. Serums are concentrated and undiluted by moisture in lightweight formulas that are meant to penetrate deeper into the skin and deliver more dramatic results. 

Masks are like serums intensified. Used only once or twice a week, for a few minutes at a time or even overnight, they target specific concerns and give a boost to your overall skincare routine.


Sun protection is an important part of daily skincare for every skin type and complexion.

SPF will help to prevent premature aging, sun spots, and other serious skin conditions, as well as preserving your hard earned results from a dedicated skincare routine.

Sunscreen should always be the last step, and for full effectiveness must be reapplied every two hours.

A UVA and UVB broad spectrum sunscreen is ideal, and can be found in many different textures, including creams, liquids, and even powders.

Consumer Reports has a great article on the top sunscreens of the year.

Internal hydration

Hydrating the skin isn't exclusive to what you put on it.

It's so important that you hydrate from within as well. Drink plenty of water every day, and minimize your caffeine and alcohol consumption especially within the week leading up to the big day. Bachelorette parties or heavy/binge drinking should be avoided the week of, unless you want a dry and dull complexion and cakey makeup that won’t last.

I love to drink a moderate amount of coconut water or aloe vera juice especially first thing in the morning to hydrate and prime my system for the day. Coconut water is not my favorite in terms of flavor however it does hydrate and absorb much more efficiently in your body than water does alone. I have developed a taste for it over time and even adding some fresh lime juice can help cut some of the funky flavor. 

General health and wellness

Smoking cigarettes blocks the delivery of oxygen to the skin cells.

This one shouldn't need much explaining to know that's bad! Skin will be dull, gray and unhealthy in general. I myself have smoked in the past and this unattractive side effect motivated me to quite for good. Who says vanity can't be healthy?

You are what you eat.

I also recommend for all my brides to get tested for allergies by their doctor.

Our skin is a reliable indicator of our overall health. I’ve seen many clients with problems ranging from eczema like symptoms to full on cystic acne who where tested and discovered they had allergies or sensitivities to certain foods. When the culprits where removed from their diet the improvements in their skin where drastic, and I’ve personally experienced this when I removed all dairy from my diet and the mysterious eczema around my mouth and chin disappeared completely and for good.

A good start would be to check out Everlywell’s food sensitivity test


Skincare routines should be consistent.

Starting a new skincare routine or adding in new and untested products a few days or weeks before the big day could mean trouble if you have a reaction or sensitivity. The key is to start early and to find a system that you will realistically be able to stick to consistently enough to see the desired results and then maintain after, so it's important that the products you choose are minimal as well as enjoyable for you to use.

Realistically you can expect it take weeks, or even months to see results from your new routine, products, or diet.

Get started today so you can wake up to a beautiful new you on your wedding day! 


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I've compiled all this information based upon my recommendations to my bridal clients. If I've missed anything or you still have unanswered questions, please don't hesitate to reach out to me through my email I always respond!

With love, 

- Giselle 🖤